The title says it all. Everyone wants to get a nice girl or a nice guy, you don't say right? But it's just not as easy as it sounds, just within snaps of finger and you'll find the ultimate girl in your life or the prince charming you've waited all these while. Oh well, some lucky ones may have probably found their, happily married, settled down with their beautiful kids and also, flipping to the next chapter in life.
Spent about 30 minutes watching WongFu Production a re-release video, Just A Nice Guy (2007) - Notice how much they have changed in 5 years time. If you have not watch the video, spare yourself some good 30 minutes watching the video. Now you'll start thinking abruptly of how much you wanted that someone so badly, and yet it's just not bound to be. Often you'll see how two souls become one; they blossomed from a simple tie, friendship. And the friend kin that you may have within one another, of course it could be of anyone that you just probably met from the bar. OKAYH, maybe not the bar, perhaps the gym or clubhouse. That sounds much convincing...
Anyways, it starts from friendship and it would eventually develops some sort of like.... I would love to call that affections in the beginning. Yes, you would most probably looking forward to text him everyday, calling him once every two days (not too often, if you're one of the shy ones like me) and perhaps, giving it a try like asking him out. Now these all sound familiar to you? I'm pretty sure everyone been that, done that. AND? That affections likely have chances to blossom into some bigger fire, which I meant sparks, that generate more interest in you as for getting to know that guy in depth, if only he's willing to open up to you and letting you know more about what's yes and what's not in his personal thoughts. Though as tricky as it may sounds, the chances for this to happen is possible, just as rare as you may find a diamond at the beach.
Nice guys finish last. Ah, this saying goes viral everywhere, and you better gotta agree with me. WHAT ABOUT NICE GIRLS FINISH LAST? It's not gonna be some sexist-debate in this entire post but there are still some nice chicks out there, still holding firm to their grounds that knights in shining armor do exist in reality. *blows away cotton-candy white-bluish clouds*
Do these sound familiar? Plenty of them! Nice girls or nice guys, they only believe that, as long as they do good, everything would just turn good and be good miraculously. Agree? It's not about the saying or anyone's perception on that matter, it's just their subjective that they are just born this way or maybe they are just inject with more humanity's juices in their heads which allow them to do good at all time with no costs. If you have pay attention to the details of the video mentioned above, sometimes nice guys or nice girls are just insensitive or blunt! They do not drop subtle hints at all to the one that they really care for, especially the one they want. (It's not easy kayh?)
It's just so frustrating. & I need to get a shower and continue this again, in the next post! x
Saturday, June 2
Tuesday, March 13
Part One
Just so little I do realized, before I could notice all these changes in myself, after these walls that I'd built against everyone that tends to enter my obscure realm; the place where I choose to spill my thoughts and let the words speak the thoughts in my head.
The tiny soul of mine wrecked a little when I decided to put some trust in someone &they will never ever failed to disappoint me. I got to be honest here, I never really be bothered to blog about my thoughts anymore, shut myself outve the world when Ive to deal with an issue, it just often cross my mind that everyone deals with their shizz, why would they be bothered about yours now, at this moment - when you're helpless and in need of just a pair of ears to hear &a warm cuddle? But always be reminded, you're nobody and nothing at all. That's when I couldn't do anything but just help myself up, lend myself a helping hand, when pillows are gonna be your pair of ears, the warm cuddle over the cold starry nights.
It's all that you can count on when things fall apart; in a way that you couldn't even tell what's right and wrong. Or perhaps, I'm just too insensitive to notice everything that happen around me. Unfortunately, when I'm too busy forking out all my attention to the wrong people, never little I do realized Ive also given most of my love to the undeserved ones; till someone has to knock some senses into my head &repeated those sentences gazillion times till it finally imprinted, a big smack in my face. How would anyone else actually defines the relationship between two souls? And what brings them together - feelings, commitment, lust, benefits, and sometimes... friendships?
Well, in my opinion of a ideal relationship, I wouldn't say anything close to perfect, but just what's right and appropriate in the definition of being in a relationship is definitely when two souls are bonded together regardless of their flaws, one might be loud and addictive while the another half, he/she could be pretty shy and less-happening. This always gets me to the saying, "Opposite attracts". My two cents do whispers silently to my heart, he does not have to be the best looking guy down the street; he could be just wearing a plain top, any ugly-checkered pants, &slipped on a pair of flip flops, and wearing his beautiful smile. That also got me wondering what is just so attractive behind that smile, the warm-blooded skin, might just be the big heart - his personality. Not forgetting his signature hair, the fidgeting body when adrenaline rushed into his bloodstream, butterflies dancing in the tummy whenever I call out his name. How do I know all of these? Because we, girls feel the same way too when guys do that to us. Every single time, he never fails to make my heart skipped a beat or took my breathe away even the slightest gesture which practically meant nothing at all, but meant the whole entire universe to me. It's just that amazing.
Relationship requires lots of time, effort and of course, commitment. Whoever that tells commitment will come as long as you start a relationship is a plain bullshyt. It doesn't come naturally but takes up a lot of perseverance and endurance, how they tolerate &accept one &another flaws. It's not going to be easy, but nothing comes easy. Nobody would eventually appreciate this if everything comes as easy as snapping a finger. Commitment is a big word, but most people have mislead this word with the definition of forever. So, it's just merely "happily ever after, loving you always &forever". Can you see the difference, in most of how many couples that actually make it to that stage, you can kindly read this now, and do reply my post 50 years later &tell me you're still counting on with your another half. It's all about the promise that you choose to make once you start to be committed into a relationship, the trust and bond both souls built together are the one that make things last, it's hard to build them, it's even harder to maintain them.
It's time to go bed. I'll blog about the part two of my thoughts.
Goodnight. xx
The tiny soul of mine wrecked a little when I decided to put some trust in someone &they will never ever failed to disappoint me. I got to be honest here, I never really be bothered to blog about my thoughts anymore, shut myself outve the world when Ive to deal with an issue, it just often cross my mind that everyone deals with their shizz, why would they be bothered about yours now, at this moment - when you're helpless and in need of just a pair of ears to hear &a warm cuddle? But always be reminded, you're nobody and nothing at all. That's when I couldn't do anything but just help myself up, lend myself a helping hand, when pillows are gonna be your pair of ears, the warm cuddle over the cold starry nights.
It's all that you can count on when things fall apart; in a way that you couldn't even tell what's right and wrong. Or perhaps, I'm just too insensitive to notice everything that happen around me. Unfortunately, when I'm too busy forking out all my attention to the wrong people, never little I do realized Ive also given most of my love to the undeserved ones; till someone has to knock some senses into my head &repeated those sentences gazillion times till it finally imprinted, a big smack in my face. How would anyone else actually defines the relationship between two souls? And what brings them together - feelings, commitment, lust, benefits, and sometimes... friendships?
Well, in my opinion of a ideal relationship, I wouldn't say anything close to perfect, but just what's right and appropriate in the definition of being in a relationship is definitely when two souls are bonded together regardless of their flaws, one might be loud and addictive while the another half, he/she could be pretty shy and less-happening. This always gets me to the saying, "Opposite attracts". My two cents do whispers silently to my heart, he does not have to be the best looking guy down the street; he could be just wearing a plain top, any ugly-checkered pants, &slipped on a pair of flip flops, and wearing his beautiful smile. That also got me wondering what is just so attractive behind that smile, the warm-blooded skin, might just be the big heart - his personality. Not forgetting his signature hair, the fidgeting body when adrenaline rushed into his bloodstream, butterflies dancing in the tummy whenever I call out his name. How do I know all of these? Because we, girls feel the same way too when guys do that to us. Every single time, he never fails to make my heart skipped a beat or took my breathe away even the slightest gesture which practically meant nothing at all, but meant the whole entire universe to me. It's just that amazing.
Relationship requires lots of time, effort and of course, commitment. Whoever that tells commitment will come as long as you start a relationship is a plain bullshyt. It doesn't come naturally but takes up a lot of perseverance and endurance, how they tolerate &accept one &another flaws. It's not going to be easy, but nothing comes easy. Nobody would eventually appreciate this if everything comes as easy as snapping a finger. Commitment is a big word, but most people have mislead this word with the definition of forever. So, it's just merely "happily ever after, loving you always &forever". Can you see the difference, in most of how many couples that actually make it to that stage, you can kindly read this now, and do reply my post 50 years later &tell me you're still counting on with your another half. It's all about the promise that you choose to make once you start to be committed into a relationship, the trust and bond both souls built together are the one that make things last, it's hard to build them, it's even harder to maintain them.
It's time to go bed. I'll blog about the part two of my thoughts.
Goodnight. xx
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